And so we are in the home stretch of J's latest trip to Africa. It was 10 days and 9 nights, but I can happily say that this was probably one of the least painful ones yet! That can completely be credited to my in-laws and my parents who very happily gave me lots of little breaks which literally saved my sanity. They were so amazing, the kids adored their time with them, and I had some time to recharge a bit. We also had some fun evenings and playdates with friends that helped pass the time right along. Anyhow, from our old youth ministry days, J and I still like to do "highs and lows." I thought I would post our list for Daddy with some accompanying pictures.
I'll start with the ugly :)
Lows:
Missing J and wishing I could call him a million times
Waking up several times a night (once in a bed freshly wet by a toddler)
Trying to sleep while squished between two flailing toddlers
B's "Whine when you say anything" day
T holding a special week of tantrums anytime something was not done in his exact way (ex. the show-down with the lady at Hallmark because he wanted to put a card back, the battle in the parking lot of Ross when HE wanted to unsnap his stroller seatbelt even though he isn't capable of that, the fit when B got out of his door of the van, and the general grumpiness at the Tree Lighting we went to - see angry face in the background below.)
Highs:
Watching a Christmas movie while snuggling with the kids in their fleece footie pajamas
Reading books by the light of a Christmas Tree
Making Christmas treats with the kids
Zoolights with my parents and brother
Family Christmas party with my in-laws and first gifts for the kids of the season
Grandparents babysitting so I could go to the gym and read an interesting book on Africa
Snuggling in bed with two of the most precious toddlers in the world.
Waking up to T saying "How was your day, mom? -Good T, I'm sleeping. -How was my day, mom? - I don't know T, how was your day? - Umm, cold. -Do you want to snuggle, T? -YES!"
Finding B alone looking at herself make faces in the mirror ("This is my happy face!, This is sad...)
Playdates with friends
Feeding Trout at Bass Pro Shop's Winter Wonderland
When T grabbed me by the face and said, "Mommy, you're a pretty girl."
Sweet Friends having us over for dinner.
Knowing Daddy will be home soon!
Precious, precious, precious!!! So glad to know you are surviving AND having time for yourself while J is away. His sweet smile is missed here in the office along with the sunshine he brings to my daily life!! Thanks for sharing your adventures!!! Hugs to you! :)
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